Use Intuition to Enhance
Your Professional Success
By Jon Stetson
Ask any successful person
what process he or she uses when making decisions, creating new
ideas and strategies or knowing what to say to get people to take
action, and the answer you’ll hear most often is “intuition.” Called
by other names, such as “gut feeling,” “a hunch,” or even “a guess
that seems to come out of nowhere,” intuition is usually the real
explanation for all those “educated guesses” that almost always seem
right.
Unfortunately, many
people are afraid to trust their intuition. After all, people
perceive the business world in black or white, and “hunches” and
“guesses” fall into that fuzzy gray area. In reality, though, you
use your intuition every day in matters you likely take for granted,
such as what tone of voice to use in a particular situation or how
close to stand when meeting someone new. Your subconscious processes
these decisions at a speed much quicker than any supercomputer ever
could. These are your intuition at work.
In the business world,
using your intuition is most important when you’re communicating
with others; whether you’re addressing your department at a staff
meeting, talking one-on-one with a co-worker or employee or
delivering an important message from the podium. Those you’re
communicating with need to feel that you understand where they’re
coming from and what challenges they face. If you go into the
interaction with a planned “script” of what you’re going to say or
how you’re going to deliver a certain piece of news, you’re making
yourself vulnerable. Sure, you may think that going from point A to
point B to point C seems safe, but the moment someone throws you a
curve ball with an unexpected question or statement, you’re likely
to say the wrong thing and hurt your credibility. It’s during those
times that you need to listen to and trust your intuition most.
Of course, this notion of
intuition means you need to
throw away the management 101 textbook and go with your gut feelings
during interactions. Doing so can be scary—there’s a risk when you
stretch yourself, but the rewards are enormous. Those you are
talking with get more out of the interaction because they don’t have
their guard up and are “in the zone” with you. They can sense that
you’re in touch with their needs, creating a synergy between them
and you that enables them to truly understand your message and apply
it. When you’re able to communicate in a way that gets people to
take action, your professional status is greatly elevated.
Intuition Honing
Techniques:
All rewards in life require an investment. As is often said, “You
don’t get anything for nothing.” When it comes to optimizing your
intuition, the same holds true. If you are willing to keep an open
mind and put forth the time and energy to hone your intuitive
skills, you’ll find your life to be more focused and successful. The
following suggestions will help you tap into your inherent intuition
so you can reap all its rewards.
Focus on what you hear: Using your intuition means paying
attention to the things that go on around you. Unfortunately,
many people today are over-stressed and over-extended, and as
such they simply don’t listen. Their minds are racing with so
many thoughts that they never really focus on what’s going on
around them, much less the person or audience they’re speaking
to. To train yourself to stay focused and aware of what’s going
on around you, repeat, in your mind, what other people are
saying. Echo their exact words mentally. Doing so will bring you
right into the moment and force you to really listen. After a
short while, staying present will become second nature and
you’ll be one step closer to better utilizing your intuition.
Focus on what you don’t hear: Science has established
that only about 19 percent of communication between people is
what they say. And while words are certainly important, more
often the tone, accent or timbre of someone’s speech, as well as
a person’s body language, is a better gauge of what’s really
going on. Elite gamblers know this fact well. Even if they’re
dealt a bad hand, after observing their opponents’ body
language, they often decide to stay in the game. They tap into
their intuition to assess just how bad their cards really are as
opposed to their opponents’ hand. By doing so, the odds are on
their side. Therefore, watch the people you’re talking with and
observe the subtle clues their body language gives you. How are
they standing or sitting? Are they looking at you or are they
focused on something else? Are they yawning or fidgeting in
their seat? All these are clues—signals to your intuition—of how
to respond.
Become a people watcher: Observe people standing on street
corners, when they are stopped from crossing due to traffic.
Look at everything about them: their clothes, their demeanor,
what they’re carrying, etc. Then, try and predict which way they
will continue—will they go straight across the street, or are
they about to turn and change directions? Also attempt to
anticipate what stores or buildings they will enter. Often,
people give clues as to their destination, and your intuition
can help you pick up on these clues.
Use games as intuition boosting experiences: Honing your
intuition can be as simple as a card game. Remove three playing
cards from a deck and lay them face up on a table. Make sure the
cards are as different from one another as possible. Ask someone
to look at the cards and mentally pick the one that seems most
interesting to them. Then you do the same. You’ll be surprised
how often your intuition will guide you to the same choice. As
you get more accurate, increase the number of cards you use.
Similarly, when you’re in a new environment, such as a new
restaurant or store, ask someone you’re with to look around and
mentally focus on something they see. Then you do the same.
Again, your intuition will often guide you to the same choice.
Use Every Day as an Intuitive Challenge:
Intuition is definitely not a “foo-foo” soft topic that has no place
in the business world. In fact, intuition is one of the most
powerful tools you have to get ahead, gain credibility and motivate
others to take action. Remember that other people can be a rich
source of “hidden” information. Just as gamblers have learned that
poker isn’t just a card game but rather a people game, you, too, can
increase your awareness of things around you when you practice these
intuition-honing exercises. The more you invest in your intuition,
the more you’ll trust yourself in any situation. Only then will you
become confident in every decision you make and interaction you
have, both in your personal and professional life.
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